tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-50506905485011472432024-02-20T23:37:48.328-05:00Gitana's CornerI've created this blog to do virtually what I do naturally...share opinions, information and insights. My purpose is to promote positive energy through collective interaction.
I hope you will consider subscribing or adding a feed from this site to yours. Feel free to contact me at Gypsiwoman55@yahoo.com.Gitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.comBlogger94125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-9991805117083158202012-07-18T00:10:00.002-04:002012-07-19T00:33:07.815-04:00Shifting DirectionsI have three blogs. I started with one and it just grew from there. I dunno...seemed like a good idea at the time. Anyway, it has become apparent to me that I spend most of my blogging time posting on one of the three blogs, <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com/">The Creative Diva.</a> The other two, <a href="http://natures-conversation.blogspot.com/">Nature's Conversation, </a> dedicated to my gardening and <a href="http://creative-diva.blogspot.com/">Gitana's Corner</a>, which contained musings and anecdotes of my everyday life, have fallen by the wayside. They have become <span style="background-color: white;">embarrassing reminders that I just can't keep up the pace necessary to maintain all three. So I had a brilliant idea -- why not roll everything into one? After all, life is a creative process so everything I do in my life is creative in one way or another, isn't it? Of course it is! Otherwise how else could I call myself The Creative Diva? So it's settled. As of today I will no longer be posting in three different blogs and compartmentalizing my life. Today I unify all the various aspects of my wonderful, interesting and above all creative life in one blog -- <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com/">The Creative Diva</a>. This should help me simplify my life, stay on track and provide relevant content in a more timely manner. At least that's the plan.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">That said, if you'd like to know what I've been up to, please come visit me at <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com/">The Creative Diva</a> by clicking <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com/">here</a>. Join me, won't you? I'd love to see you. Thanks.</span><br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
<span style="background-color: white;">- Gitana, the Creative Diva</span>Gitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-14129974544826605082012-04-02T21:53:00.000-04:002012-04-04T22:42:55.130-04:00Hanging Out With Oprah, Deepak and Sue<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">One of the many large screens set up inside Radio City.</td></tr>
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As I mentioned in <a href="http://creative-diva.blogspot.com/2012/04/im-gonna-see-oprah-live.html">my last post</a>, I was the lucky winner of some tickets to see a live taping of <a href="http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/oprahs-lifeclass.html">Oprah's Lifeclass</a> at Radio City Music Hall in New York City and I took my sister Sue along as my guest. It wasn't until the warm up crew came out to greet the audience and prepare us for the show that I found out that Oprah's guest for this taping was none other than the incomparable Deepak Chopra. Not only had I hit the spiritual jackpot, I got to see it all from an aisle seat! For free! It doesn't get much better than that.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Oprah on the stage at Radio City Music Hall.</td></tr>
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For those of you who have not seen any of <a href="http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/oprahs-lifeclass.html">Oprah's Lifeclass</a> broadcasts, it is an interactive experience. Participants are invited to ask questions and make comments using their web-enabled smart phones and tablet computers and their responses are transmitted to Oprah live while the taping is in progress. From time to time Oprah would glance at the boards and pick out a comment or two from those sent Facebook or Twitter and respond to it. In addition, selected viewers in different parts of the country are connected to the taping via Skype, a computer application that allows video conferencing so they could see and hear the discussions as well as be seen and heard by everyone in the audience.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My sister, Sue, in the audience at <a href="http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/oprahs-lifeclass.html">Oprah's Lifeclass</a> taping.</td></tr>
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The topic of discussion was, of course, spirituality -- what it is, what it isn't and how it impacts our lives on a daily basis. It would be impossible to recap the entire two hour taping. Instead, here are a few golden nuggets of wisdom that I gleaned during that time:<br />
- Spirituality: living your life with an open heart.<br />
- We are not humans having spiritual experiences. We are spiritual beings having human experiences.<br />
- You are not your thoughts -- you are an observer of your thoughts. You have the power to consciously turn off negative thoughts and let them go. Not to do so makes you a prisoner of your thoughts.<br />
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There was more, so much more, but it would be better for you to see it for yourself. The taping I attended will be aired on Oprah's <a href="http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/oprahs-lifeclass.html">OWN</a> network on Monday, April 23 at 8 PM EST. Check the website for your local channel and time. While you're there, catch up on Season 1 of Lifeclass and get a sense of what the class is all about.<br />
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Hope to see you there!<br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative Diva<br />
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<br />Gitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-21231443401817399162012-04-01T03:33:00.002-04:002012-04-04T22:44:00.501-04:00I'm Gonna See Oprah Live!<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The line at Radio City Music Hall for Oprah tickets.</td></tr>
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In the fall I, like many others, was intensely engaged in watching the broadcast of Oprah's Lifeclass, a self-help and motivational series of shows that lasted about three weeks. You had to register on the OWN site to become a part of the virtual class, making you a captive audience for any promotional materials sent out by the site. Several weeks ago I received an email from The Oprah Channel that LifeClass was going on tour and would be filming two segments in New York City at Radio City Music Hall. Tickets to the show would be given away by lottery to all the people who entered the contest during a very small window of opportunity. Of course I entered. And of course I was lucky enough to score a couple of those coveted tickets or I wouldn't be writing this post.<br />
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The taping is on Monday, April 2, 2012. Tickets could only by picked up on the two days immediately prior to the taping, could only be picked up by the person whose name appeared on the original entry and only after presenting valid photo ID. These precautions are nothing compared to the restrictions imposed on the day of the actual taping which I'll go into in a bit. So I drag myself out of bed and brave the cold, wet and damp weather to stand on line with several hundred other lucky people who also showed up to pick up Oprah tickets. In the photo you can get an idea of the number of people in front of me. The line extends out the front door of the Music Hall, around the corner and up the block. The small square of light you see in the upper left corner of the photo is where the line makes a turn from the front of the building around the side. In spite of the number of people, it moved relatively quickly once the doors opened at 10AM. I was done by 10:50AM.<br />
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Now, about those restrictions. First, the usual stuff: no cameras or any type of recording device, no food or drinks, no drugs, no weapons. Then comes the rest: no large purses, bags or backpacks will be allowed; security checks to be performed on all bags and persons entering the Music Hall; doors open at 12:30PM, taping begins at 2PM but if you're not there by 1PM you forfeit your seat to the anxiously awaiting crowd of stand-bys waiting in a holding area just across the street. You're advised to dress well and wear bright colors, not to wear all white or all black or graphic tees.Once inside there will be limited or no concessions so you are advised to eat well before the show because you will not be able to leave again before 4:30PM. So I have to eat big before 12:30 because I won't get another chance before 4:30 and I can't even bring in a bottle of water. At this point I'm beginning to wonder...after I have had to stuff a large meal down my throat before noon, will I be allowed to use the restrooms when Nature's call inevitably arrive? No wonder Oprah has such lively crowds. They're all sitting on the edge of their seats because they've got full bladders. Note to self: buy Depends.<br />
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Anyway, I'm off to see Oprah with my sister on Monday. I sure hope the show is good enough to be worth all these restrictions. I sure hope my bladder can stand the strain.<br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-68436019127217671862012-02-21T00:30:00.003-05:002012-02-28T17:35:33.949-05:00In Search of the PastFor as long as can I remember, I have been collecting information about our family tree. This is no small task when you consider that prior to my generation birth control was inconsistently (if at all) practiced and, in some religious circles, actively discouraged. Add to this the fact that Latino men not only considered it their privilege to carnally enjoy any woman they so desired, they considered condom use an affront to their manhood. The ultimate result of this was an abundance of progeny. I have more aunts, uncles and cousins than I will ever know in my lifetime. This richness of family member makes researching them all a bit overwhelming. No sooner do I get them cataloged than they begin reproducing, adding another layer of branches to the tree.<br />
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Lately I've been using the considerable resources available on Ancestry.com to look for family members unknown to me and, in most cases, long gone. The experience has been eye-opening and immensely satisfying, allowing me a small glimpse into the lives of those walked before me. Through census, military and other records, I have been able to find family members I had never heard of. My parents, particularly my father, seem to enjoy it when I tell them I found one of their family members while trawling through the census records. The calls I made to them in an attempt to verify some random fact would trigger waves of nostalgia, with long buried memories coming to the surface.<br />
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One of the ancillary benefits of genealogical research is not only to uncover the past but, in many cases, to connect with the present. Just such an experience occurred today. I recently received a response to an inquiry I had posted to a family tree owner on Ancestry.com whose family members seemed to correspond to some of my own. A few short email messages transpired until today when I called and connected with a daughter of my great uncle. She, as it turns out, was also trying to piece together the branches of her father's family tree, a task made somewhat difficult by the fact that her estranged father died a few years ago, leaving her without much information to go on. She and I spent some time on the phone trading information and we hope to meet up in the near future to continue the dialogue. This now leaves me with yet more information to input into the family tree. No matter. Bit by bit I will build this tree until the day comes that I can hand over the reins to my future generations and give them the thing that was so sorely lacking in my own life...a sense of personal history.<br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-62804105657670049032011-10-12T03:56:00.000-04:002011-10-12T03:56:21.162-04:00I went dancing last night...On the wall of my basement workshop hangs a framed poster touting a performance headlined by Orquesta Aragon, a well known Cuban music group. My husband has had this poster for over 25 years as a reminder of an enjoyable concert he attended during his bachelor days. When he discovered that this group was brought into New York from Havana for a one-night-only performance, he was all over it. The ad for the performance said, "Bring your dancing shoes." With our marching orders firmly in hand, we headed into Manhattan for a 10 PM show.<br />
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The Metropolitan Pavilion on West 18th Street provided a perfect venue with great sound, good lighting and plenty of room to dance comfortably. The crowd was an eclectic mix of Latin music enthusiasts that included a fair number of dance school students eager to practice their Latin social dancing skills to live music, as well as old school Cubans dressed in spats, fedoras and guayabera shirts. (What I thankfully didn't see were dance studio instructors showing off their best "Dancing with the Stars" moves.) The music reminded me of the sounds I used to hear coming from our record player when I was a child.<br />
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What I noticed most was my husband who seemed to be totally relaxed and in his element. This is the man I remember from our courtship days, the man who enjoyed sharing a good time with his lady, certainly not the tired and dour individual who comes home from work and parks himself in front of the television and grunts occasionally by way of conversation. He kept me on the dance floor for the entire, albeit short, duration of the performance (only an hour and a half), brought drinks to the table in between songs and just enjoyed himself thoroughly. He even proposed a toast to the beginning of our anniversary celebration.<br />
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Our anniversary falls on Hallowe'en day, Oct. 31 and this year will mark our silver wedding anniversary. After so many years together, going through the ups and downs of life with the same person, it is easy to become jaded. Tonight I caught a fleeting glimpse of the man I married. If I can get him off the sofa and into the dance hall once in a while, maybe I can get to see that man more often. And maybe, just maybe, I can see myself sticking around for the next 25 years.<br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-69188331416948598952011-07-11T02:18:00.000-04:002011-07-11T02:18:25.255-04:00Too Much Time...(Click on photo to view a larger image.) <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5za34-FjUo7t1ujL87r3ga6bGMHW3-xOudlTqKxazyS5ayVjagg0Led3oLgoVFaRoHjSedsPh3IlwgSR3ARdg4znZ5_sUhEsS-jsA0P1Lo7pIp4JiXu4o_hDea-x0xtWwC3jq27OjJqA/s1600/IMG_2593.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5za34-FjUo7t1ujL87r3ga6bGMHW3-xOudlTqKxazyS5ayVjagg0Led3oLgoVFaRoHjSedsPh3IlwgSR3ARdg4znZ5_sUhEsS-jsA0P1Lo7pIp4JiXu4o_hDea-x0xtWwC3jq27OjJqA/s400/IMG_2593.JPG" width="400" /></a>I'm not even going to attempt to play catch up with the events of the last six months.There's far too much to remember so I'll start with the most recent events. Last Sunday, July 3, 2011, three of my father's siblings gathered at his house: his oldest sister, Iris and her daughter Joann, His brother Manuel and youngest sister Gladys and her husband Sammy. Of them, Iris was the one who drew my attention the most because I hadn't seen her in over 30 years. As a result none of my children ever met her and I didn't remember my cousin Joann at all. Manuel and Gladys have been to my father's several times in the past few years so I've been able to catch up with them. Since Gladys lives in Florida and Iris lives in Tennessee, it's not likely they will be able to get together very frequently in the future so I took this opportunity to gather some genealogical information for my family tree.<br />
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Out came the old photo albums, the reminiscences, the laughter and the inevitable difference of opinion as to how things really happened way back when. My son and nephews were pretty much out of the loop since the events being discussed occurred close to 50 years ago but I'm glad they were there to share the moment. I remembered to bring my camera and tripod and managed to snap this family portrait to commemorate the moment. I have no doubt that this will become one of those treasured images in the years to come.<br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-82636529854747159782011-01-05T01:44:00.001-05:002011-01-05T01:45:11.280-05:00New York's Christmas Blizzard 2010(Click on any photo for a larger image.) <br />
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On Sunday, December 26, 2010, a blizzard hit New York City and the surrounding areas with a fury, dumping up to two feet of snow in some areas and packing winds that were close to category 1 hurricane speeds. Snowdrifts of five to six feet were commonplace and the entire city was brought to a standstill. The city's response to the clean-up effort was dismal, leaving hundreds of streets unplowed for days, trapping thousands of people in their homes and leaving untold numbers of cars stranded on city streets. It was a major mess.<br />
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The storm also brought quite a bit of anxiety to my family when we found out that my mother had slipped on the front steps of her house and injured her ankle. The snow conditions prevented my folks from leaving to seek medical attention and prevented an ambulance from making it over to them. When all was said and done, it was eight days before my mother's ankle was examined and x-rayed. The verdict: the ankle is broken and has been set in a cast. Fortunately the break was not a bad one but any bone break for a septuagenarian is cause for concern. She'll be in a cast for about six weeks and has been given strict orders not to place any weight on the foot. The weather forecast promises more snow for this weekend. I've got fingers and toes crossed that we only get a light dusting this time. Another storm would....I don't even want to think about it. <br />
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You can see some more photos of the storm's aftermath in my Photobucket album: <a href="http://s184.photobucket.com/albums/x174/Gypsiwoman/Blizzard%20of%20December%202010/">http://s184.photobucket.com/albums/x174/Gypsiwoman/Blizzard%20of%20December%202010/ </a><br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-5767594346931785882010-12-21T03:47:00.003-05:002011-04-03T18:08:42.954-04:00A Once in Lifetime Experience<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIOvJz1RL30XY4GFvZgvSZ8AGh6XnklwkORW0rz2sXI2_NDYkzdiKmH5BlIbEWkY4ysaebBiFxRh6upjv_3KkCcv5Z8rIjaYLuXwpY3Hwp9hjHVPooN-Y4JmEe_zyN2EtlmwAPAFGI4fM/s1600/Lunar+eclipse+image.JPEG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="179" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIOvJz1RL30XY4GFvZgvSZ8AGh6XnklwkORW0rz2sXI2_NDYkzdiKmH5BlIbEWkY4ysaebBiFxRh6upjv_3KkCcv5Z8rIjaYLuXwpY3Hwp9hjHVPooN-Y4JmEe_zyN2EtlmwAPAFGI4fM/s320/Lunar+eclipse+image.JPEG" width="320" /></a></div>Today, December 21, 2010, marks a rare and beautiful natural convergence. On this day of the winter solstice, the longest and darkest night of the year, there occurred a full lunar eclipse beginning at approximately 2:00 AM. According to NASA, the last time the winter solstice and a lunar eclipse occurred simultaneously was about 372 years ago. The next such occurrence is scheduled for Dec. 21, 2094. Since I don't expect to be around in 2094, I braved the frigid temperatures outdoors and watched the eclipse in real time with my son until it reached totality. Then we retreated indoors to thaw out.<br />
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The winter solstice marks the end of long dark nights and heralds the coming of longer days and more light. From a numerological perspective, today's date, 12-21-2010 is a triple 3 day (1+2=3, 2+1=3, 2+0+1+0=3) which equals 9, the number of endings, of letting go of the old and preparing to embrace the new. It brings forth the opportunity to end those behaviors that are not life affirming and which prevent you from achieving your full purpose and potential.<br />
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Whether you subscribe to esoteric philosophy or not, may this winter solstice full moon lunar eclipse be the beginning of a bright and wonderful future for you.<br />
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(For more information on the lunar eclipse click <a href="http://www.aolnews.com/2010/12/19/lunar-eclipse-december-2010-falls-on-winter-solstice/">here</a> for an article that includes the image you see above.) <br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-77126155180376109362010-11-29T02:13:00.001-05:002010-12-16T02:51:14.553-05:00Of Milestone Events and Empty NestsThe two youngest of my three children experienced milestone birthdays this year. My son turned 21 last month and my daughter turned 18 this past weekend. They are both in college and, hopefully, are on their way to fulfilling adult lives. With my daughter away at college and my son out of the house much of the time, I am experiencing the prelude to an empty nest. There is less laundry to do, less dishes to wash, less noise and more food left in my refrigerator. (Contrarily the house is not in less need of upkeep. Hmm, why is that, I wonder?) There are times when I miss them being around. Then I think of the free time I have available to me now that they're not around as much and realize how much I'm enjoying it.<br />
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Empty nest? Bring it on.<br />
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Ballo ergo sum, - Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-69751607128860700082010-10-09T22:21:00.000-04:002010-10-09T22:21:45.032-04:00A Major Gripe with BlogspotFULL DISCLOSURE - THE FOLLOWING IS A GRIPE SESSION.<br />
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Am I the only one who has major problems with the editing functions of Blogspot? It seems that no matter how hard I try, creating a post with images is an exercise in frustration. Even basic text posting is a challenge. I type a paragraph, double space to create a new paragraph, add some photos then check my work with the Preview function only to find that my images are all over the place and my text is scrolling into the spaces between the photos. To add insult to injury, when I tweak everything so it appears somewhat normal in the preview mode and publish the post, the final output doesn't look anything like it did in the preview mode. So what good is a preview if it doesn't give you an accurate image of the final product.<br />
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I'm so through with the frustrations of Blogspot that I may look around for an alternate blog host. Then I've got to change all my links and business cards to reflect the new address. Ugh, just the thought of it makes me tired.<br />
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Does anyone else use Blogspot? If so, what has your experience been like? Please leave me a comment and let me know. Thanks.<br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-82945121105444413612010-09-19T23:48:00.003-04:002010-12-16T02:49:15.474-05:00Confessions of a Reluctant Cook<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-OEGNBFMWYOreeZJsHlsUIoq6ntXsLZoIhBRzcub5fHyWAbwQDE-ysGvBcYE2hhnHjNht9rPFcRGbmNTubwNYUN25pkFoMI-VjwobnjoLIKmcuIOCL-9XCGKNnjAslcpNhuh8gIEjwsMo/s1600/Ravioli.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="143" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-OEGNBFMWYOreeZJsHlsUIoq6ntXsLZoIhBRzcub5fHyWAbwQDE-ysGvBcYE2hhnHjNht9rPFcRGbmNTubwNYUN25pkFoMI-VjwobnjoLIKmcuIOCL-9XCGKNnjAslcpNhuh8gIEjwsMo/s200/Ravioli.jpg" width="200" /></a>I admit it. I would rather not cook. It's not that I'm a bad cook -- I'm actually pretty decent. It's just that I would prefer to have someone call me to a delicious meal than to be the one doing the calling. From time to time, however, I am inspired to try my culinary hand at something I've never done before. This week that inspiration came from another blog, that of my friend, Ben, author of <a href="http://kissthecook-ben.blogspot.com/">Kissing the Cook</a>, specifically his <a href="http://kissthecook-ben.blogspot.com/2010/08/raviolo-and-i.html">wonderful ravioli recipe. </a>I decided that I was going to try my hand at making homemade ravioli with a homemade filling. I learned a few things in the process.<br />
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<i>Lesson #1: It always takes longer than you think it will. </i>I'll cut to the chase. I started at 5PM. We ate at 9PM.<br />
<i>Lesson #2: Small ravioli are harder to make than large ravioli. </i>The smaller the ravioli, the messier it is to stuff and seal.<br />
<i>Lesson #3: If you're going to cook something you've never made before, don't split your attention by trying to make meat sauce for a l</i><i>asagna at the same time. </i>When you do that, it takes longer to complete your project. (Refer to Lesson #1.)<br />
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Ok, so on to the ravioli. I used half all purpose flour and half whole wheat flour, which made the dough a little harder to knead and roll. (<i>Lesson #4 - Forget the whole wheat flour, and Lesson #5 - get a better rolling pin.) </i>It resulted in ravioli with thicker pasta than I would have liked and required longer to cook. In spite of the chewiness, the ravioli was tasty enough to convince me (and my family) to try it again. I liked the filling enough to double the recipe and use it in my lasagna the following day. And if my next attempt at ravioli is successful, I'm going to start experimenting with different fillings. Of course, there's always the possibility that I'll hit the lottery, become fabulously wealthy and hire an Italian cook to prepare my meals for me. In the meantime, I'll keep looking to my friend, <a href="http://kissthecook-ben.blogspot.com/">Ben, the cook </a>for occasional inspiration of the culinary kind to keep me motivated in the kitchen.<br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-634046311065465442010-09-03T00:14:00.000-04:002012-02-07T04:17:19.465-05:00Digging My Way OutI'm dog tired, exhausted from all the work I've been doing around the house for the past week or so. I've gotten myself into a frenzy of cleaning and purging my personal spaces of a lot of the crap I have accumulated over the years and held on to "just in case". Nothing more has been accomplished other than filling my home to the point where I'm uncomfortable. I am to blame for much of it as I am an incorrigible pack rat, loathe to throw anything out that may be useful. The rest I blame on my family. They, too, are pack rats however they do not share my saving grace of actually cleaning and clearing once in a while. They just accumulate endlessly and seem to be very happy wallowing in their own mess.<br />
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My house has been whispering in my ear. (No, wait, not whispering...it was more like a clarion call but, since it was directed at my deaf ear, I perceived it as a whisper.) It's been telling me, "It's time to let go and move on", and so that is exactly what I've been doing, slowly and methodically. I began in my bedroom, a place I don't usually spend a lot of time in. My bedroom exists to house my clothes, jewelry and bed. I don't live in there, I just sleep in there, so consequently it gets neglected in the housekeeping department. I didn't realize exactly HOW neglected it was until I started moving stuff around to clean and I have to admit I was embarrassed by how long I had let things go. I began the cleanup with my dresser then I progressed around the room in a counterclockwise manner, cleaning specific sections over a number of days. Yes, I said days, it was THAT bad. Yesterday and today marked major milestones; I washed the blinds and cleared out my husband's night table and corner of the room. I knew I had made a major dent when he came to me after having entered the bedroom and said, "What happened?" The fact that he even noticed was the benchmark that I'd done some major damage.<br />
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The cleaning and clearing has not been confined to the bedroom. I've had my hand in nearly every room of the house, doing a little bit here, a little there, and getting into long overlooked nooks and crannies. There's an immediate payoff to these activities...I can breathe easier. It feels as if the air is fresher and as if there is more light in the room. I've also been doing the very same thing in my garden, clearing out a very thick stand of blackeyed susans in anticipation of next year's growing season. I plan on shifting my focus from flowers to food crops next year and I want to devote more of my garden space to that. I'll talk more about that in my garden blog.<br />
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The biggest challenge that I have yet to face is my craft workshop. It is literally filled to bursting and I am going to have to do some serious purging there. Yet, I am determined to slay the dragons of disorder one at a time, slowly and methodically, until I free myself from this self-imposed prison of "stuff". There is a vision in my head of what I want to achieve and as long as I keep that vision firmly in my sights, I can do nothing but achieve that goal. There is no doubt in my mind that when I achieve my goal, I will realize that I didn't really need all that stuff to begin with. Getting rid of it isn't the hard part...keeping it out, now THAT is the hard part.<br />
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Wish me luck. And pass me the dustcloth, will ya?<br />
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Ballo ergo sum,<br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-23031802399924482062010-08-12T16:48:00.000-04:002012-02-21T00:33:23.508-05:00Joy and SorrowIn the three weeks since my last post so much has happened that it is difficult to fit in all in the body of this post. If you have been following me for any length of time, you already know that I have been experiencing an incredible run of good fortune surrounding my crafting. (See my artist blog, <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com/">The Creative Diva</a>, to read all about it.) This series of events has gotten me some recognition for the creative work that I do and has allowed me to work from home with financial compensation. As the winner of a sweepstakes sponsored by A.C. Moore, I received an all-expenses paid trip for two to attend the Craft and Hobby Association Craft Supershow in Chicago, a mecca for all things craft-related. With my sister as my guest, we were treated like visiting royalty from July 28 to July 31 while in Illinois. As if the trip were not enough, while at the show I won several drawings and a craft challenge for yet more prizes. My sister and I laughed and smiled the whole time we were in Chicago. It was a heady and joyful experience.<br />
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I returned home on Saturday, July 31 and checked my email to find a message from my oldest and dearest friend in the world, Art Zaballero. He and I had communicated several times in the week prior to my departure and he had sent me a message wishing me a good trip and expressing his desire to get together with me after my return. On Sunday afternoon, my caller ID identified an incoming call as being from Art but it was his wife instead, calling to inform me that Art had died of a massive heart attack only hours before. In that split second, all of the euphoria I had been experiencing up until that moment evaporated, vanished with the realization that I had lost one of the most precious things in my life. My friendship with Art spanned nearly 50 years, from the time we were young children. To describe the nature of our relationship would require far more space than is available on this blog. Let's just say we had transcended the limits of friendship and had become each other's sibling. He was my family and I was his. As far as I was concerned, I had lost my brother.<br />
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If the week prior to the funeral was surreal, the wake and funeral ceremonies were a wake up call. You've no doubt heard it before but I'll say it again. Life is short; make the most of it everyday. I've been on that path for a while and I'm not going to slow down now. If anything, I'm going to press on, living and loving every golden moment as much as possible. That's what Art's death has taught me...to live every day as if it were my last. <br />
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Ok, Arty, I've got it.<br />
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Ballo ergo sum, <br />
- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-37227810392863984652010-07-22T23:25:00.005-04:002010-07-22T23:56:53.863-04:00A Good DayToday was a bit of a departure for me in a few ways. First of all, I had a lunch date with a friend and former classmate from my graduate school days, someone I haven't seen in quite a while. After making sure my garden was well watered, I showered and dressed to meet her. I chose to wear white, one of my favorite summer colors and one that, in spite of its association with purity, makes me feel very sexy. That's another way today was different...I felt sexy, something I haven't felt for too long a time. I felt it and it showed.<br /><br />I traveled into Manhattan to meet my friend and we had lunch at a hidden little Spanish restaurant on 14th Street. It was truly a jewel filled with old world ambiance and good food. It felt like stepping into a different world for the time we were in there. As we were leaving, we noticed a sign saying the place had been established in 1868. We were incredulous and curious so we turned around and went back inside to inquire. The owner himself answered our questions but what was remarkable was what came afterwards. After his explanation, he introduced himself to me pointedly to which I responded with my own introduction and shook his hand. He commented on my beautiful name and lovely earrings and held my hand for just a touch longer than was necessary. The old bird was flirting with me!! <br /><br />I am so out of touch with the whole mating scene that I was taken by surprise. When my girlfriend and I left the restaurant, we were talking about it and she said, "We're getting up there in age. Take your compliments where you find them. Let the old man flirt. It's okay." You know, she's right. Let the man flirt. Even better, let me enjoy that I'm being flirted with. I guess if I'm not too old to feel sexy, I'm not to old to be flirted with or to enjoy it.<br /><br />I spent the rest of the afternoon walking around a paper specialty store, looking at the beautiful imported and handmade papers available there. Then I came home to my family, my dog and a dinner that needed cooking. My sexy day was over but the memories still lingered. <br /><br />On another front, my husband, who had been laid off on Memorial Day weekend, came home with some great news. He had interviewed a week ago with a local employer and today he filled out the necessary paperwork to become its newest employee. I don't have to tell you in this economy how great this news is. I told him we should celebrate.<br /><br />Hmmm, maybe my sexy day isn't over just yet. :)<br /><br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-7890973042356879232010-07-14T17:05:00.007-04:002010-07-14T17:27:00.599-04:00Time to Catch Up.I have been crazy busy since my last post. As I mentioned then, I was creating paper flower arrangements for my daughter's high school's graduation ceremony. In the midst of that, several other projects came up. You can read about them and see some pictures <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com/2010/07/so-much-to-tell.html">here</a> in my artist blog. Seems I've been running on a treadmill, expending a lot of energy yet staying in the same spot. Since the spot I'm staying in is home, I don't have a problem with that.<br /><br />My newly graduated daughter has moved to North Carolina to live with my older daughter and her family and will be attending a nearby college there. The quiet in my house since her departure has been downright deafening and I'm still getting accustomed to the lessened workload in laundry, cooking, dishes, etc. Less work, more quiet...I can used to this.<br /><br />In the middle of all my activity is my husband's inactivity, an inactivity that stems from his having been laid off on Memorial Day weekend. Yes, we have become part of the latest statistics in this bad economy. Perhaps inactivity is not the proper word to use here because the fact is that he has been hard at work looking for another job since his feet hit the ground but the market in his field, electrical construction, is very soft and jobs at his level are not to be found. We're holding our own for the present time but that may be short lived. Now we have two children in college and no income. This is not a pretty picture. I guess my flurry of income producing activities couldn't have come at a better time.<br /><br />To be continued...<br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-69181543424258852172010-05-25T22:48:00.006-04:002010-05-25T23:24:50.331-04:00Oh My! How Time Has Flown!!I just read the date on my last blog update and realized I haven't written a post since early February when I decided to volunteer at a local senior citizen's center. Now, four months later, I have become a fixture at the center where I not only run an hour long crafts session once a week but also stick around to do many of the organizational tasks that the director and her small staff can't get around to. I have spent untold hours cleaning, clearing and organizing the crafts cabinet and storage closets and discovered lots of great materials that were being neglected simply because no one knew what was there or how to find it. The director and I have made several visits to Materials for the Arts, a organization that collects donations from private donors and commercial concerns and makes them available to non-profit groups, schools and theater companies. We have been able to score some great finds there that have been put to good use as crafts materials, office supplies, and storage. In short, I've been having a great time putting my organizational and creative skills to use in an environment where I am welcomed and appreciated. You can see the projects I have completed to date with the seniors at my artist blog, <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com">The Creative Diva</a>. <br /><br />As if I needed something else to do, I am also volunteering to decorate the auditorium of my daughter's high school for it's very first graduating class of which my daughter is a part. The mission of the school is that of environmental responsibility and sustainability so all elements of the celebration must be eco-friendly. To that end I am making paper flowers out of used and recyclable paper with which to create floral arrangements to decorate the front of the stage. Of course I've never done this before so I'm dead in the middle of a steep learning curve but so be it. When the flowers are done I'll be posting photos on <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com">my artist blog</a> so I hope you'll come over to check them out.<br /><br />After my daughter graduates, she'll be attending college in North Carolina and will be leaving sometime in July to get settled into her new role as an adult. In the meantime I will be settling into my role as a mother hen with one less chick and I'm looking forward to the quiet in my chicken coop.<br /><br />Another news-worthy occurrence since my last post is that my son returned to college after a few years of not knowing quite what to do with himself. His first attempt was not successful because he frankly didn't want to go to school. After dropping out, going to work, getting laid off and spending a long time unemployed, he finally decided he was ready to take another stab at college. I'm happy to say that he seems much more settled and comfortable this time around and I hold great hopes for his success. In due time he, too, will be leaving the nest whereupon this old bird will be doing the empty nest happy dance. Oh yes, I'm looking forward to an empty nest in spite of everyone telling me otherwise. I've lived the last 30 years mindful of my responsibility to the needs of others. I'm ready to finally live for myself. But until my nest is completely empty, I still have to contend with the droppings.<br /><br />Somebody, hand me a shovel, will ya?<br /><br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-12764627907099240192010-01-24T02:44:00.008-05:002010-02-03T01:16:08.013-05:00Something Else To DoSince I'm at home most of the time, I've been feeling a bit isolated and out of touch and I knew that I had to get myself out of the house and in contact with people. But because of health issues that seem to crop up at the most inconvenient times, I didn't want to commit myself to anything that would require a fixed time commitment like a part time job. My husband, who knows I'm a sucker for volunteering to do things for others, found a little article in the newspaper touting <a href="http://www.nycservice.org/index.php">NYC Service</a>, a website sponsored and maintained by New York City that contains listings of volunteer opportunities all over the five boroughs. I checked it out, created a profile and searched the available volunteer opportunities to see if any struck my fancy. I came across an opportunity for a crafts instructor at a local senior citizen's center and sent an email to indicate my interest. <br /><br />Fast forward to the present. I met with the center director who gave me a quick tour of the facility and showed me the kind of materials available for use. I have never worked with seniors before. Some of the members have visual impairments (blindness, macular degeneration)and/or mobility limitations (arthritis, etc.) that impose restrictions on the types of activities they can participate in and I have no experience whatsoever in dealing with limitations of any kind. Furthermore the available craft materials left much to be desired with respect to the type of crafting I have been doing of late. <br /><br />In spite of it all, I am inclined to accept this opportunity. I have learned that the process of working through challenges and pushing one's limits is the quickest path to releasing one's creativity and inner talents. I've been scrounging the internet and tapping my crafting buddies for projects and ideas suitable for seniors and am scheduled to revisit the center in order to observe the crafts class that is currently running to see if that will give me any ideas. I haven't even told the director that I'm in yet and I'm already planning my next move. <br /><br />To be continued...<br /><br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">UPDATE</span></span>: February 2, 2010 - I have visited the senior center again, this time to observe the crafts class and talk with some of the members to get an idea of what they would like do in terms of crafting. I came home with some of the center's crafts materials so I could start creating projects to do with the seniors and am scheduled to conduct my first crafts class with them at the end of this week. Okay, so I've jumped in with both feet. Hope this swimming hole isn't too deep. <br /><br />Check out my artist blog, The Creative Diva, to see the <a href="http://gitana-thecreativediva.blogspot.com/2010/02/valentine-volunteerism.html">project</a> I'll be doing with the seniors this week.<br /><br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative Diva<span style="font-weight:bold;"></span>Gitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-83608860248406072662010-01-20T00:24:00.002-05:002010-01-20T00:34:49.941-05:00Dad's HomeLast week my father was rushed to emergency with chest pains. Under normal circumstances this is not good news. When you consider that he underwent an angiogram in July that resulted in having a stent placed in order to open up a nearly blocked artery, such a scenario is downright scary. The good news is that he is back home and doing well. After an overnight stay in the hospital, he underwent yet another angiogram that confirmed his blood vessels were all clear. It was determined (which means the doctor's best guess is) that the chest pains were caused by my father stopping his medication regimen. He did so because the medicine was making him sick but the result was a trip to the hospital. He has been placed back on the medication regimen but this time at a lower dosage in an attempt to curb or eliminate the adverse effects he was experiencing.<br /><br />My parents are in their mid-70's. They are relatively active and fairly healthy but they have slowed down considerably. This makes me sad. It places their mortality and my own squarely in my face. I have become acutely aware of the passage of time or, more precisely, the dwindling of our time remaining. <br /><br />I need to stop here before I break down and cry.<br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-60975742112728865352010-01-15T01:42:00.005-05:002010-07-08T19:48:49.536-04:00An Emotional DayI received very disturbing news today. My mother called to tell me she was taking my father to the emergency room because of chest pains. My dad had an angiogram at the end of July and had a stent placed in one of his arteries. He hasn't been quite the same since, suffering from pains in his upper joints, back, neck and chest. The aspirin regimen he was on for his heart condition caused an ulcer. He's been given so many medications that they were negatively interacting and he felt worse. I could go on. <br /><br />It seems to me that he has gone from strong and robust to frail and frightened overnight but if I examine my heart of hearts I know the truth. I have chosen not to see time marching across his handsome face. I have chosen not to notice the once herculean physique dwindle and the twinkle in his eyes fade. He always seemed like a big man to me but I realize now that it was because, in my eyes, he was a little larger than life. Now life overshadows him and he seems small by comparison.<br /><br />Dad's going to have to spend a few days in the hospital undergoing tests to see if his heart problem can be pinpointed and fixed. I strongly suspect that another angiogram is in his future. Who knows what else is in store for him. All I know is that Daddy is old and sick and there's nothing I can do to change it or make him better. <br /><br />And I'm scared. Very, very scared.<br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-69831563382114276422010-01-01T02:05:00.003-05:002010-01-01T03:09:39.251-05:002010In the past two weeks since my angiogram, I completed all the obligatory preparations for Christmas including buying and wrapping gifts, trimming the tree and making a traditional holiday treat. I usually make bread pudding but this year I made <span style="font-style:italic;">coquito</span>, which essentially amounts to Puerto Rican eggnog with a kick of rum. This recipe is so rich, just reading the list of ingredients is enough to stop your heart in its tracks. Four different milks, a dozen egg yolks, cinnamon, coconut cream, rum -- trust me, this drink is a heart attack in a bottle. Thankfully it's made only during the December holidays. Any more often than that would decimate our family population. <br /><br />I had a family pot luck gathering on the day after Christmas and there was enough food to sink a battleship. Everyone ate to capacity, took home a doggy bag and there was still enough food left over that I didn't have to cook for the rest of the week. In fact I had my children's friends over one evening and there was more than enough to feed them (and you know how much teenagers can eat)! Family, food and coquito. Aaah, those are the holidays in my home.<br /><br />In contrast to the hustle and bustle of Christmas, we brought in the new year very quietly at home. It was just my husband, my daughter and myself (oh yeah, and our beagle, Marla). My son was out with some friends. We toasted at midnight with some champagne and hugs and kisses all around. Then back to our solitary activities. It was very quiet. <br /><br />The day didn't feel like a holiday. It felt like any other day of the week. But the clan is gathering at my uncle's house this afternoon to start the new year with the usual suspects...family and food, food, food. That's when it will feel like a holiday to me.<br /><br />Happy New Year, everybody. The best of everything in 2010.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-14594371867459154852009-12-15T00:24:00.004-05:002009-12-15T00:37:54.290-05:00Post-procedure calmI have successfully weathered my first (and hopefully only) angiogram and am back home to report about it. Nothing remarkable was found but I have been placed on an aspirin regimen and must watch my cholesterol. Short story...I'm okay.<br /><br />As planned, I did not sleep through the night, preferring to sleep at the hospital during and after the procedure. Time seemed to speed up as it neared the hour of my departure from home for the trip to the hospital. As expected, the travel took forever in the early morning hours and there were more people in the trains than I would have expected. Everything went smoothly and without a hitch once I arrived at the hospital, and in short order I found myself in the recovery room calling my husband for a pickup. I was even given a delicious tuna sandwich and some ginger ale to eat. Once I returned home, I picked up where I left off at the hospital, that is, I promptly went back to sleep and didn't wake up until many hours later when my son called me to announce dinner was servd. (Yes, my son cooks. I made sure of it. I'm no fool.) Dinner was delicious and afterwards I watched television with my children. It's not often my children cater to me and if being a "patient" is what it takes, I'm going to milk it to the hilt. <br /><br />I'm glad this issue is over for the present. Now it's back to holiday madness for me. After all, there are still gifts to buy, presents to wrap, decorations to put up, etc., etc., etc. <br /><br />Boy, it feels good to be back.<br /><br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-84621150386021329512009-12-14T01:46:00.004-05:002009-12-14T02:14:25.296-05:00Pre-procedure JittersMy father's father died of a stroke in his eighties. My father's brother died of a heart attack in his forties. My father, in his mid seventies, recently underwent an angiogram where a blockage was discovered, removed, and a stent implanted. He, thankfully, is doing well and is under medical care so he can stay that way.<br /><br />Several months ago I underwent a routine stress test. Routine, that is, until abnormal readings showed up. My primary physician, who is also a cardiac specialist, recommended I undergo an angiogram to see if there was anything going on in my heart that may be cause for concern. Before agreeing to this procedure I sought the opinion of two other cardiac specialists. Both said the same thing my doctor said...my test results were not critical and may turn out to be nothing at all but they also recommended an angiogram. Given the cardiac history on my father's side, this sounds like good advice.<br /><br />I am scheduled to undergo the procedure later this morning. It is a relatively simple procedure that should take less than half an hour to perform and will require me to lie perfectly still for several hours afterwards to prevent any bleeding at the entry site. I witnessed my father successfully undergo this procedure and emerge as good if not better than new. And my doctor performs angiograms on a routine basis so I'm in good hands. But I'm scared. Scared to death. Scared to take this test and even more scared not to. Moreover I haven't told anyone about my trepidations so I'm carrying this alone. I specifically didn't tell my parents about this. I didn't want to worry them. Worse than that, I didn't want to have my mother twittering about, calling me up constantly to see how I'm doing, giving me endless advice, trying to be very helpful but annoying me to no end in the process. That would have stressed me out even more. No, better to keep this to myself. Only my husband, children and sister know about the angiogram but even they don't know I'm scared. Better that way.<br /><br />It is now 2 AM. I won't be going to sleep tonight, preferring to stay up until it's time for me to go. I will leave at 4:30 AM to travel to the hospital by mass transit. During normal business hours this trip might take an hour or an hour and a quarter at best. At this unholy hour, when even the birds are still asleep and the trains are running at a snail's pace, I expect a much longer travel time. My husband will come to pick me up after my recovery period and bring me home where I fully intend to lay in bed and do a whole lot of nothing. At least that's the plan. Let's see how this all plays out. <br /><br />To be continued...<br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-75857265781167269362009-11-27T16:35:00.002-05:002009-11-27T17:05:05.219-05:00Some Words of Inspiration<strong><em>If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. - Wayne Dyer</em></strong><br /><br />While perusing the myriad Black Friday ads that had been sent to my email box, I came across the above quote in an ad by a company that specializes in scrapbooking supplies. It had been placed in the <em>Community</em> section of the ad. It seemed rather odd to find this quote there since it apparently has no relevance to scrapbooking or sales in general so it grabbed my attention. I am familiar with Dr. Wayne Dyer as a motivational speaker and author of self-help books and am a fan of his philosophy. Seeing his quote on this ad gave me pause to give this vendor a second look. After all, if the vendor subscribes to the principles espoused by Wayne Dyer, maybe it's a good company to do business with.<br /><br />Hmmm, maybe the quote does have some relevance to sales after all.<br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-24075899236743834322009-11-27T01:19:00.002-05:002009-11-27T01:52:24.004-05:00A Great ThanksgivingI sit here in a post-Thanksgiving food coma, my stomach bulging and my mind reliving the great day I had today with my family.<br /><br />I woke up late in the morning because I had gone to bed early in the morning...6:15 AM to be precise. I was up late writing blog entries and creating a card for my daughter's 17th birthday. The day I gave birth to her happened to be Thanksgiving day and this was the first time her birthday and the holiday fell on the same day in a long time so this Thanksgiving was extra-special.<br /><br />She had prepared a list of things she wanted for her birthday, most of which concerned food. She wanted a special meal, she wanted her favorite treats, some funky socks and the latest books in the series she is reading. Between my sister and I, we managed to give her everything that was on her list and then some. My son surprised her with a red velvet cake, my mom made her special Jello mold, a family favorite and I ordered the gourmet Italian cookies that she (and I) love. There were desserts galore. My daughter felt very special and said that this birthday ranked among her top birthdays of all time. <br /><br />The day was special for me, too, in a variety of ways. For one thing, I didn't have to stress over making a tremendous meal for a large number of people. I cooked just for the four of us. Getting the house ready for guests was not a frenzy of cleaning and polishing. Because I had been cleaning a little here and there over a few weeks, it was a matter of a little light dusting, a quick sweeping, a fresh set of towels and temporarily hiding the clutter. The best thing of all was that my husband cooperated without my having to say a word and my son did what was asked of him the first time it was asked. Wow! That rarely happens. After dinner we immediately cleaned up and put the extra food away. By the time my parents and my sister's family arrived, my dishes were in the dishwasher, my kitchen was clean and everything was so neat you'd never know there had been a grand dinner there only half an hour before. And I managed to do this without breaking a sweat or rushing around like a madwoman. The dessert phase was more of the same. Everything ran like clockwork from set up to goodbyes and final cleanup. My kitchen was again spic and span in less than half an hour and all the goodies had been safely packed away. <br /><br />I don't even know how I managed to do it. I just seemed to flow from one thing to the next without a worry. Wish I could figure out that magic formula and bottle it. I'm hoping for some more of that mojo to carry through the rest of this holiday season.<br /><br />Happy Thanksgiving, everyone.<br /><br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050690548501147243.post-67452222279140974722009-11-07T02:09:00.004-05:002009-11-07T02:58:52.621-05:00Physician, Heal ThyselfIt is sometimes said that we teach that which we most need to learn. It would appear that I am a sterling example of that saying. I recently commented to a friend of mine that I was considering offering my services as a housekeeper in an effort to make a little money on the side while accommodating my freelance schedule. One would think that the housekeeper's home would be spic and span. Well, in this house that is not the case.<br /><br />It's not that I'm a lousy housekeeper. Far from it, but let's face it... housework is drudge work, especially when there are four people living here and only one person doing the really dirty work. True, my children do have chores but they only accomplish the absolute bare minimum necessary to keep me from witholding privileges and generally making their lives miserable. As a result, the little things are left undone. Like the corners on the floors that hold on to all manner of dirt and debris. Like the laundry that gets folded but never distributed so it languishes in the laundry basket for days. Like the dishes that get washed but the dirty sink is never scoured. I could go on and on. Then there are those things that you look at everyday but don't see really see or perhaps you just look right through them as if they aren't there, like the dust that accumulates on the top edges of tall furniture, door frames and ceiling fan blades, yada yada yada. I won't even touch the issues of pet hair, oven cleaning and freezer defrosting. Those things are just downright depressing.<br /><br />After a while those little things add up to one big load of dust and dirt. And as is the nature of housework, it doesn't stay done. As soon as you clean something it gets used or dirtied again and the cycle begins all over again. It's enough to make me insane so I take an approach that helps me retain some semblance of sanity...I ignore the mess. But that tactic only takes me but so far. The day always comes when, in a fit of misdirected energy, I'll begin to clean something and then something else until, before I realize it, I've opened up a housekeeping hornet's nest. It happened to me today. That's when I took stock and really looked at my house. I looked into the corners, on the ledges, at the windows and mirrors, into those little used areas that seem to welcome dust with open arms, and I'm disgusted. Disgusted and embarrassed at the sad state of my own home. How did I think I could clean someone else's home when my own is in such a shameful state?<br /><br />Upon careful thought, I realized why cleaning someone else's house appeals to me more than my own. It's because after I have done the work, I can leave while it's still clean and I don't have to be around to see it get dirty again. I can enjoy the illusion that I have accomplished something worthwhile and not have to watch that oh-so-clean house of cards tumble down. Of course I know that the residents of the house are going to use and dirty whatever I have cleaned. I just don't have to watch it. <br /><br />I've recently been doing quite a bit of cleaning around my home, specifically those things I tend to look through and not directly at. Who knew so much dust could collect on the top of a ceiling fan blade? You'd think the movement of the fan would be enough to keep the dust off but apparently not. My other recent cleaning attacks include the grout between the kitchen floor tiles, the mildew on the bathtub caulking, the dust in between the stair rails and the etageres that hold my plants. This is not even the tip of my housecleaning iceberg. This amounts to a mere snowflake.<br /><br />I would still like to do some freelance housekeeping but first I've got to take stock of my own mess, at least a small part of it. While I'm doing so, I'm going to pay attention to what I'm doing, how I'm doing it and looking for ways to do it better and faster. That way when I do get that first housekeeping job, I'll come across as a professional instead of a harried housewife looking for some pocket change. If nothing else, my home should look great for the holidays.<br /><br />Holidays? Oh no, that reminds me...I'm still finding bits of last New Year's Eve confetti. Here we go again.<br /><br />Ballo ergo sum,<br />- Gitana, the Creative DivaGitanahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13870707643196456558noreply@blogger.com1